January 24, 2024

The Two Missing Pieces

The Two Missing Pieces

Hi There Sister, and welcome to the swirling of thoughts…

In today's digital age, establishing a strong online presence is crucial for any woman willing to listen attentively to her calling…

And- also to breathe life into this.

However, there is a caveat-

Meaning…? 

it's equally important to ensure that your online persona is aligned in full harmony with your authentic self

without sacrificing your personal values, your core beliefs, and your non-negotiables of inner alignment

So, if you would like to enhance your growth in leading yourself, 
the ones you love deeply, and the individuals you are called to serve

Continue reading on…

Because if you choose to attempt to fit the contorted boxes of others opinions you’re about three steps from walking into hell

and this one, you wouldn’t come back out. 

In today's thoughts, you will discover how both: emotional and spiritual intelligence can greatly contribute to your effectiveness as a leader- online
 
and a seductress in the bedroom-
going offline

And no matter where you go…

Let's start by understanding
the significance of:

emotional intelligence (EI)
in leadership. 

EI is the ability to recognize and understand your own emotions, 
as well as those of others. 

As a woman, being in tune with your emotions allows you to communicate effectively, manage conflict, show up with your full essence, and inspire trust and confidence. 

When it comes to your online presence, your emotional intelligence plays a key role in how you engage with your audience. 

How you nurture, how to sit in quiet patience, and how you show up in loving who they are and where they are in life…

Our world is hurting; women need to heal the Sister wound more than anything we’ve ever seen as a collective…

There’s fragmentation every where we turn, and words that are said and the ones not-

can be quite cruel. 


Authenticity
and genuine connection

are highly valued in the digital realm, and these qualities are rooted in 

… emotional intelligence. 

By being aware of your emotions:

what is your mood...?

what is your intention...?


And centering yourself-

Allows you to empathize
with others around you. 

In this space you can create a strong and relatable online presence that resonates with your audience, and gives you this energy that is difficult to describe with words-

 #IYKYK

The truth is:
No one is here to tip-toe around your vanity wounds acting like you need to be saved by a big tiger chasing you

and this being salty attitude...

c'mon- that's the easiest to see...

when the truth will arrive to test this long list of declarations. 

Now, let's delve into the realm of spiritual intelligence (SI) and its impact on leadership. 

SI involves a deep sense of purpose, meaning, and interconnectedness. 

It encompasses qualities such as integrity, compassion, and a broader perspective on life. 

When you cultivate spiritual intelligence, you bring a sense of authenticity, ethics, and Vision to EVERYTHING you do and what you create through you. 

And this is where a ‘flow state’ arrives to your doorstep

many describe this as time pauses on the clock, self-consciousness evaporating, and anything that doesn't have to do with the task goes completely to the wayside…

YOU feel this sense of magick…

In the online space, this means aligning your digital presence with your core values and purpose. 

By infusing your online content with sincerity, empathy, and a higher purpose, you open up portals to build a meaningful and impactful online presence that reflects who you truly are as a leader.

You find this capacity to sit in the mud when someone is facing a rocky in lifeand open your heart to listen to their pain and offer the antidote, to borrow your shoulder to rest for a moment. 

So, with this quick overview, you might be curious

How can you integrate emotional and spiritual intelligence into your online presence while staying true to yourself…? 

Here are some practical tips to get you started:

1. Authentic Storytelling: 
Share your personal experiences, challenges, and triumphs genuinely and heartfeltly.

Show up with vulnerability and transparency in your online communication, as this fosters a deeper connection and relatability.

This goes past the chit-chat weather convos and allows someone to feel safe in removing all their filters. 

WE need much more of this, wouldn’t you agree…? 

2. Active Listening: 
Take the time to truly listen with your heart, not just your ears on the side of your head-
with this beautiful mane that is tied up in a messy bun four days a week, could be all 7… 😂
just like me…

Understand their needs, concerns, and aspirations.

Respond with quiet empathy and understanding, showing that you value where they are presently standing

- altho also be attentive to the entire thoughts they share…

Notice a little more in the quiet spaces; 

What is their tone, tempo, their timing, and their tune…?

What do you feel inside your body…? 

They could very well be asking for your guidance and your expertise, are you wiling to SPEAK…

And to share your skeletons that nobody knows…? 

3. Purpose-Driven Content: 
Create online content that reflects your leadership values and vision. 

Whether it's through written articles, videos, or social media posts, add the doses of your uniqueness with ALL of your content with a sense of purpose, and positivity, while bringing the layers of inspiration underneath.

For the sake of having enough of the blah, blah, blah -

surface stuff-
it’s all getting a bit redundant…

And whatever you do- 
don’t be that girl who takes the last bite of strawberry ice cream-

It may not work for want later
in the morning…

4. Mindful Engagement: 
Be mindful of your online interactions, and the impact of how your words land, ask questions through the lens of curiosity, and you’ll be amazed at how quickly unbreakable trust begins and solidifies in all of your relationships. 

Cultivate a respectful and inclusive online community, where everyone feels heard, valued and safe to contribute. 

You can lead
from a place of influence
with authenticity, empathy,
and purpose

by integrating
emotional and spiritual intelligence
into your online presence. 

This not only enhances your leadership effectiveness but also creates a digital footprint that is aligned with every realm of you

As you begin to embark on this journey, or to step up the next rung

…remember that your online presence is an extension of who you ARE…

in this present moment. 

Does this mean that you attempt to fit other’s views…?

Can I just briefly give two words: F&*k NO. 

YOU stay True to you. 

And when you do this: 
Opens up a bridge to embrace the opportunity to inspire, uplift, and connect with others in a genuine and soulful way

That’s what
each one of us CRAVES.

A frequency of FEELING SEEN

Your authentic leadership presence 
will not only resonate with your online audience 

BUT, 

will also leave a lasting, positive impact on you and with anyone who can handle 100% proof! 

Embrace the power of emotional and spiritual intelligence
And all of me can’t wait to witness this next version of you. 

Appreciate you stopping in;
will be seeing you soon~
Lisa @ The Sigma Société





Hi There Sister, and welcome to the swirling of thoughts…

In today's digital age, establishing a strong online presence
is crucial for any woman willing to listen attentively to her calling…

And- also to breathe life into this.

However, there is a caveat-

Meaning…? 

it's equally important to ensure that your online persona is aligned 
in full harmony with your authentic self


without sacrificing your personal values, your core beliefs, 
and your non-negotiables of inner alignment

So, if you would like to enhance your growth in leading yourself, 
the ones you love deeply, and the individuals you are called to serve

Continue reading on…

Because if you choose to attempt to fit the contorted boxes of others opinions
you’re about three steps from walking into hell

and this one, you wouldn’t come back out. 

In today's thoughts, you will discover how both:
emotional and spiritual intelligence can greatly contribute
to your effectiveness as a leader- online
 
and a seductress in the bedroom-
going offline

And no matter where you go…

Let's start by understanding the significance of:  
emotional intelligence (EI) in leadership. 

EI is the ability to recognize and understand your own emotions, 
as well as those of others. 

As a woman, being in tune with your emotions
allows you to communicate effectively, manage conflict,
show up with your full essence, and inspire trust and confidence. 

When it comes to your online presence, your emotional intelligence 
plays a key role in how you engage with your audience. 

How you nurture, how to sit in quiet patience,
and how you show up in loving who they are
and where they are in life…

Our world is hurting; women need to heal the Sister wound
more than anything we’ve ever seen as a collective…

There’s fragmentation every where we turn,
and words that are said and the ones not-
can be quite cruel. 

Authenticity and genuine connection are highly valued 
in the digital realm, and these qualities are rooted in 

… emotional intelligence. 

By being aware of your emotions:

what is your mood...?

what is your intention...?


And centering yourself-

Allows you to empathize with others around you. 

In this space you can create a strong
and relatable online presence that resonates with your audience,
and gives you this energy that is difficult to describe with words-

 #IYKYK

The truth is:
No one is here to tip-toe around your vanity wounds
acting like you need to be saved by a big tiger chasing you

and this being salty attitude...

c'mon- that's the easiest to see...

when the truth will arrive
to test this long list of declarations. 

Now, let's delve into the realm of spiritual intelligence (SI) 
and its impact on leadership. 

SI involves a deep sense of purpose, meaning, and interconnectedness. 

It encompasses qualities such as integrity, compassion, 
and a broader perspective on life. 

When you cultivate spiritual intelligence, you bring a sense of authenticity,
ethics, and Vision to EVERYTHING you do and what you create through you. 

And this is where a ‘flow state’ arrives to your doorstep

many describe this as time pauses on the clock, self-consciousness evaporating, 
and anything that doesn't have to do with the task goes completely to the wayside…

YOU feel this sense of magick…

In the online space, this means aligning your digital presence 
with your core values and purpose. 

By infusing your online content with sincerity, empathy, and a higher purpose, 
you open up portals to build a meaningful and impactful online presence 
that reflects who you truly are as a leader.

You find this capacity to sit in the mud when someone is facing a rocky in life
and open your heart to listen to their pain and offer the antidote,
to borrow your shoulder to rest for a moment. 

So, with this quick overview, you might be curious

How can you integrate emotional and spiritual intelligence 
into your online presence while staying true to yourself…? 

Here are some practical tips to get you started:

1. Authentic Storytelling: 
Share your personal experiences, challenges,
and triumphs genuinely and heartfeltly.

Show up with vulnerability and transparency in your online communication,
as this fosters a deeper connection and relatability.

This goes past the chit-chat weather convos
and allows someone to feel safe in removing all their filters. 

WE need much more of this, wouldn’t you agree…? 

2. Active Listening: 
Take the time to truly listen with your heart,
not just your ears on the side of your head-
with this beautiful mane that is tied up in
a messy bun four days a week, could be all 7… 😂
just like me…

Understand their needs, concerns, and aspirations.
Respond with quiet empathy and understanding,
showing that you value where they are presently standing

- altho also be attentive to the entire thoughts they share…

Notice a little more in the quiet spaces; 

What is their tone, tempo, their timing, and their tune…?

What do you feel inside your body…? 

They could very well be asking for your guidance 
and your expertise, are you wiling to SPEAK…

And to share your skeletons that nobody knows…? 

3. Purpose-Driven Content: 
Create online content that reflects your leadership values and vision. 

Whether it's through written articles, videos, or social media posts,
add the doses of your uniqueness with ALL of your content with a sense of purpose,
and positivity, while bringing the layers of inspiration underneath.

For the sake of having enough of the blah, blah, blah -
surface stuff- it’s all getting a bit redundant…

And whatever you do- don’t be that girl who takes the last bite 
of strawberry ice cream- It may not work for want later in the morning…

4. Mindful Engagement: 
Be mindful of your online interactions, and the impact
of how your words land, ask questions through the lens of curiosity,
and you’ll be amazed at how quickly unbreakable trust begins
and solidifies in all of your relationships. 

Cultivate a respectful and inclusive online community, 
where everyone feels heard, valued and safe to contribute. 

You can lead from a place of influence with authenticity,
empathy, and purpose by integrating emotional and spiritual intelligence
into your online presence. 

This not only enhances your leadership effectiveness 
but also creates a digital footprint that is aligned with every realm of you

As you begin to embark on this journey, or to step up the next rung

…remember that your online presence 
is an extension of who you ARE… in this present moment. 

Does this mean that you attempt to fit other’s views…?

Can I just briefly give two words: F&*k NO. 

YOU stay True to you. 

And when you do this: 
Opens up a bridge to embrace the opportunity to inspire, 
uplift, and connect with others in a genuine and soulful way

That’s what each one of us CRAVES.

A frequency of FEELING SEEN

Your authentic leadership presence 
will not only resonate with your online audience 

BUT, 

will also leave a lasting, positive impact on you
and with anyone who can handle 100% proof! 

Embrace the power of emotional and spiritual intelligence
And all of me can’t wait to witness this next version of you. 

Appreciate you stopping in;
will be seeing you soon~
Lisa @ The Sigma Société