Hi There Sister, and welcome to the swirling of thoughts…
In a world where influence is everything it can be easy to find yourself trying to please everyone
and sacrificing your time, effort, and energy.
But what if there was a way
to influence without squandering everything you have…?
What if there were keys to unlocking the power of influence
without compromising your values and well-being…?
And I’m not just asking this about your work life or what you do to make sure you eat and have a roof over your head to sleep
I’m talking about this inner critic that comes after YOU the bitch in your head that rips you to shreds
when you simply sit down
for a cup of coffee…
The one that has you squint in the mirror over another line or another grey that appears to show up overnight.
The one that says you’re not worth the next raise in the corporate ladder
so, you settle for some promotion to someone less qualified-
~~~ mind-boggling ~~~
and now, it’s you reporting
and delivering…?!
So, this is ONE view of the topic I’m sharing about-
And what I'm about to share next-
may rub some feathers the wrong way
But, it’s a full moon
and going the edge with this…
Since this is the topic we don’t come out to “talk” about in the PTA.
This topic appears to be taboo; inside a lot of rooms when cupcakes are being shared in between the next birthday party another soccer league schedule or the gymnastics competition that’s arriving next month.
Where am I going with this…?
Are you longing for a deeper,
more passionate connection
outside the bedroom…?
Because today,
I’m breaking a myth-
that your ‘lover’’ is supposed to
do all the work.
I’m talking about ensuring that you don’t have ‘transactional sex’
once a week, if you’re lucky-
for Pete’s sake
And it would mean something more
then adjusting your thong for a quick whatever…
Leaving you more agitated than if you just jumped into the shower.
Sex shouldn’t feel like inserting your card at the grocery store
but rather a beautiful and spiritual connection that leaves you feeling fulfilled and empowered.
The problem is - most women are settling for putting in a pin-number… and pressing ‘enter’
And this ongoing conversation,
it was OK-
Like seriously…?!
That leaves this sinking feeling- the question surfaces:
Why even waste the 3 minutes…?
To achieve deep, passionate sex,
it's essential first to understand
- it starts outside of the bedroom.
It's about fostering
a solid emotional
and intellectual connection
with your partner.
Open and honest communication
is vital, as it builds trust and intimacy.
Take the time to truly understand each other's desires, fears, and dreams.
This will create a strong foundation for a deep, passionate connection that transcends the physical act of sex.
When it comes to the physical realm of exploring, it's about delving into each other's bodies with a sense of curiosity and reverence.
Explore each other's pleasure zones
with an open heart and mind.
Allow yourself to be vulnerable
and release any inhibitions.
Deep, passionate sex is about surrendering to the moment and fully immerse yourself in the experience.
For women who are seeking to discover the secrets, it's essential to recognize that actual influence comes from within.
It's not about putting on a facade, acting like some damsel to be rescued or trying to be someone you're not.
Instead, it's about tapping into your authenticity
and using it to inspire, first, yourself and to motivate your lover.
It's about being a dominatrix and the submissive And to share precisely the direction you want.
The direction that you desire.
The direction that you lust.
The direction that you crave.
In most religious doctrines
it’s part of the SINS of some sort
That we don’t talk about this openly
In some areas of the world, it is so hush-hush Most women FEEL that they are breaking some rule
To talk about sex past the short educational series
But the reality is -
last time I checked…
we’re grown adults
we are humans
and this is part of living.
One key to influence is to lead by example.
POUR into your lover-
one direction…
without any attachment, to give freely, to cultivate this space to provide a place where they feel safe, wanted, desired and pulled in by you…
It is intentional, it is loving, it is caretaking, it is being present
With your lover, in every realm- wholeheartedly.
To be grateful for the little things
that means so much.
To tap into their love language
- it isn’t tough.
Sending a flirty text, painting the scene ~~~ Before your arrival…
All before arriving to taste their sweat…
And you feel their body next
to you at 1-am for round two-
you can't get enough...
When you live with purpose and integrity your lover will naturally be drawn to your energy and passion.
By being true to yourself and your values you can inspire those around you to play inside this synergistic experience.
This powerful form of influence is sourced from your roots.
The primary key
to unlocking this box is:
to cultivate strong
communication skills.
You may be sitting there
with what…?
OH, yes.
Being able to articulate your ideas, setting the image as a seed in their mind to see how heated the dial begins to turn…
All comes back to YOU.
How compelling can it be…?
And this can have a profound impact on what happens next for you.
Influence is about asking- it is about inspiring and empowering others to be their best selves.
It's about lifting your lover up and helping them realize their potential.
This is the intimacy piece that is forgotten by so many…
By approaching your lover
from a place of empathy
and understanding-
you can build genuine
and a deep, meaningful connection.
You can amplify your influence
and create even more significant changes
in this dynamic relationship.
Finally, coming back to you-
it's essential to prioritize self-care
and what way helps you -
get there…?
Yes, you read this correctly…
It's essential to prioritize
your pleasure.
Many women are conditioned by a list of ‘social/religious’ paradoxes
to prioritize their partner's pleasure over their own, but it's time to flip the script.
Take the time to understand and embrace your sexual desires.
Communicate your needs to your partner and open up the bridges of connection for them to do the same.
When both parties prioritize each other's pleasure, the result is a genuinely transformative sexual experience.
See,
If you don’t know your landscape-
and you’re unsure HOW to get in touch with you…
How would you ever expect your lover to understand what you like
what you enjoy and how you want to be maneuvered…?
By staying true to yourself, cultivating strong communication skills, approaching influence with curiosity, and a co-creative intentionally
it's all about embracing sensuality in all aspects of your life.
From the way you dress to the way you move, embrace your femininity and exude confidence.
Cultivate a sense of self-love
and appreciation for your body.
When you feel confident and sexy in your skin, it will naturally translate into your sexual experiences.
Ultimately, deep, passionate sex is about connecting on a soul level.
It's about two people coming together in a raw and authentic way, free from societal expectations
and judgments.
It's about embracing your sexuality and celebrating the beautiful, the transformative power of intimacy.
So, Sister, it's time to rise above the transactional nature of sex
and show up more for yourselves- unapologetically.
Embrace deep, passionate sex and cultivate a connection that goes beyond the physical realm.
Sister, you deserve to experience love, connection, and pleasure in its purest form.
Embrace your sexuality and never settle for anything less than the deep, passionate sex you deserve.
To learn more about how to create a deeper place of intimacy:
Appreciate you stopping in;
will be seeing you soon~
Lisa @ The Sigma Sociéte
Hi There Sister, and welcome to the swirling of thoughts…
In a world where influence is everything
it can be easy to find yourself trying to please everyone
and sacrificing your time, effort, and energy.
But what if there was a way to influence
without squandering everything you have…?
What if there were keys to unlocking the power of influence
without compromising your values and well-being…?
And I’m not just asking this about your work life
or what you do to make sure you eat
and have a roof over your head to sleep
I’m talking about this inner critic that comes after YOU
the bitch in your head that rips you to shreds
when you simply sit down for a cup of coffee…
The one that has you squint in the mirror over another line
Or another grey that appears to show up overnight.
The one that says you’re not worth the next raise in the corporate ladder
so, you settle for some promotion to someone less qualified
and now, it’s you reporting and delivering…?!
So, this is ONE view of the topic I’m sharing about-
And what I'm about to share next-
may rub some feathers the wrong way
But, it’s a full moon
and going the edge with this…
Since this is the topic we don’t come out to “talk” about in the PTA.
This topic appears to be taboo; inside a lot of rooms
when cupcakes are being shared in between the next birthday party
another soccer league schedule or the gymnastics competition
that’s arriving next month.
Where am I going with this…?
Are you longing for a deeper, more passionate connection
outside the bedroom…?
Because today, I’m breaking a myth-
that your ‘lover’’ is supposed to do all the work.
I’m talking about ensuring that you don’t have ‘transactional sex’
once a week, if you’re lucky- for Pete’s sake
And it would mean something more
then adjusting your thong for a quick whatever…
Leaving you more agitated
than if you just jumped into the shower.
Sex shouldn’t feel like inserting your card at the grocery store
but rather a beautiful and spiritual connection
that leaves you feeling fulfilled and empowered.
The problem is - most women are settling
for putting in a pin-number… and pressing ‘enter’
And this ongoing conversation, it was OK-
Like seriously…?!
That leaves this sinking feeling- the question surfaces:
Why even waste the 3 minutes…?
To achieve deep, passionate sex, it's essential first to understand
- it starts outside of the bedroom.
It's about fostering a solid emotional
and intellectual connection with your partner.
Open and honest communication is vital,
as it builds trust and intimacy.
Take the time to truly understand each other's desires, fears, and dreams.
This will create a strong foundation for a deep,
passionate connection that transcends the physical act of sex.
When it comes to the physical realm of exploring,
it's about delving into each other's bodies
with a sense of curiosity and reverence.
Explore each other's pleasure zones
with an open heart and mind.
Allow yourself to be vulnerable
and release any inhibitions.
Deep, passionate sex is about surrendering
to the moment and fully immerse yourself in the experience.
For women who are seeking to discover the secrets,
it's essential to recognize that actual influence comes from within.
It's not about putting on a facade, acting like some damsel to be rescued
or trying to be someone you're not.
Instead, it's about tapping into your authenticity
and using it to inspire, first, yourself and to motivate your lover.
It's about being a dominatrix and the submissive
And to share precisely the direction you want.
The direction that you desire.
The direction that you lust.
The direction that you crave.
In most religious doctrines
it’s part of the SINS of some sort
That we don’t talk about this openly
In some areas of the world, it is so hush-hush
Most women FEEL that they are breaking some rule
To talk about sex past the short educational series
But the reality is -
last time I checked…
we’re grown adults
we are humans
and this is part of living.
One key to influence is to lead by example.
To POUR into your lover- one direction…
without any attachment, to give freely, to cultivate this space
to provide a place where they feel safe, wanted, desired
and pulled in by you…
It is intentional, it is loving, it is caretaking, it is being present
With your lover, in every realm- wholeheartedly.
To be grateful for the little things
that means so much.
To tap into their love language
- it isn’t tough.
Sending a flirty text, painting the scene
Before your arrival…
All before arriving to taste their sweat…
And you feel their body next to you at 1 am
for round two- you can't get enough...
When you live with purpose and integrity
your lover will naturally be drawn
to your energy and passion.
By being true to yourself and your values
you can inspire those around you to play
inside this synergistic experience.
This powerful form of influence is sourced from your roots.
The primary key to unlocking this box
is to cultivate strong communication skills.
You may be sitting there with what…?
OH, yes.
Being able to articulate your ideas, setting the image as a seed in their mind
to see how heated the dial begins to turn…
All comes back to YOU.
How compelling can it be…?
And this can have a profound impact
on what happens next for you.
Influence is about asking- it is about inspiring
and empowering others to be their best selves.
It's about lifting your lover up
and helping them realize their potential.
This is the intimacy piece that is forgotten by so many…
By approaching your lover from a place of empathy
and understanding- you can build genuine
and a deep, meaningful connection.
You can amplify your influence
and create even more significant changes
in this dynamic relationship.
Finally, coming back to you- it's essential to prioritize self-care
and what way helps you - get there…?
Yes, you read this correctly…
It's essential to prioritize your pleasure.
Many women are conditioned by a list of ‘social/religious’ paradoxes
to prioritize their partner's pleasure over their own, but it's time to flip the script.
Take the time to understand and embrace your sexual desires.
Communicate your needs to your partner
and open up the bridges of connection for them to do the same.
When both parties prioritize each other's pleasure,
the result is a genuinely transformative sexual experience.
See,
If you don’t know your landscape-
and you’re unsure HOW to get in touch with you…
How would you ever expect your lover to understand what you like
what you enjoy and how you want to be maneuvered…?
By staying true to yourself, cultivating strong communication skills,
approaching influence with curiosity, and a co-creative intentionally
it's all about embracing sensuality in all aspects of your life.
From the way you dress to the way you move,
embrace your femininity and exude confidence.
Cultivate a sense of self-love
and appreciation for your body.
When you feel confident and sexy in your skin,
it will naturally translate into your sexual experiences.
Ultimately, deep, passionate sex is about connecting on a soul level.
It's about two people coming together
in a raw and authentic way, free from societal expectations
and judgments.
It's about embracing your sexuality and celebrating the beautiful,
the transformative power of intimacy.
So, Sister, it's time to rise above the transactional nature of sex
and show up more for yourselves- unapologetically.
Embrace deep, passionate sex and cultivate a connection
that goes beyond the physical realm.
Sister, you deserve to experience love, connection, and pleasure in its purest form.
Embrace your sexuality and never settle for anything less
than the deep, passionate sex you deserve.
To learn more about how to create a deeper place of intimacy:
Appreciate you stopping in;
will be seeing you soon~
Lisa @ The Sigma Sociéte